Personal Development: Setting Personal Boundaries with Davida Shensky

Trust and believe in me. I had to recognize that I was the highest authority over myself. I knew what I needed, wanted, and valued. I recognized that healthy boundaries allowed me to take better care of myself—emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually. My needs and feelings are as important as other people’s needs and feelings. This was a difficult lesson for me to learn for two reasons. First, the spiritual lessons in my youth expected me to put other people first. Second, modeling from my parents supported the belief that we should care for our fellow man. I didn’t go so far as to believe that my life should be sacrificed; however, I thought that whenever possible I should try to put other people first. Learn to say no. Unfortunately, I have been a people-pleaser which, early on in my career, put me at a disadvantage. I had put my personal needs on the back burner. I learned that a certain amount of “selfishness” is necessary for healthy personal boundaries. I have a right to personal boundaries. I need to take responsibility for how I allow others to treat me. I recognize that boundaries are filters that permit what is acceptable in life and what is not acceptable. My boundaries protect and define me. I need to set clear and decisive limits that others can respect.

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Questions asked in the Podcast:

Why you need to trust and believe in yourself?

Why your needs and feelings are just as important as someone else’s?

Do you have a right to set boundaries?

What was it like growing up with a disability?

How did you overcome your limits?

Why did you start your own business?

Were there any support system to help you grow your business?

How have your experiences helped you get where you are today?

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